I had no idea until just a few minutes ago what I would be writing about today for Thoughtful Thursday. I started looking through my pile of “to read” that was surrounding me in my little morning nest of books, journals and just random pieces of paper ( yes this drives my very orderly husband nuts) when the end of this yoga article by Anne Cushman spoke to me:
“And when your hearts awaken, even small gestures can have an immense effect.”
As we end November in which we focus on gratitude and immerse ourselves into the often times crazy holiday season I hope we can remember the small gestures we can do for others and even for ourselves.
What awakens your heart? What small gesture can bring a smile to your face and a sense of peace?
When I am out and about I look for those little things. Holding the door open for a Mom with little ones or anyone else who seems to need it, thanking the cashier, complimenting someone on their beautiful sweater or great smile. I am also known for gathering up all the errant shopping carts that are left around the parking lot. I make up stories about how these people were having a rushed or bad day and just couldn’t get the cart put away ( that may not be true but it keeps me from being negative).
When I am home and grousing about the little things that seem big at the moment ( the endless amount of dog hair, the papers that seem to pile up and breed overnight, the internet that lately only works when it wants to) I try and center myself and remind myself that these are all little things. If I can’t move forward, if I am really stuck there are couple of things I can try to awaken my heart.
One is journaling. There is just something about putting it on paper that gives me perspective.
The other one that always works for me when I am home is to turn on Netflix and tune into the British show “Call the Midwife”. Even if I just have it on in the background, the music and the sense of peace around that show settles me down and helps me get back into my heart. It might not be your preference but this show is all about kindness, love and helping women who are often times living in really dire circumstances and yet the midwives and nuns focus just on the person and love them right where they are.
These are just two of my own personal examples. I have way more and I’m sure you do as well. If not, have a quiet moment today and find something that calms you and awakens your heart. It’s good to have it in your “tool” box for those times when things get a bit crazy.
I’ll leave you with this quote from Thich Nhat Hanh:
One word can give comfort and confidence, destroy doubt, help someone avoid a mistake, reconcile a conflict or open the door to liberation. One action can save a person’s life or help him take advantage of a rare opportunity.With compassion in our heart, every thought, every word and deed can bring about a miracle.
Have fun awakening your heart and as always …Go make it a Thoughtful One!